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The Day My Husband Gave Me A Cowbell

by Amy Blevins 4 Comments

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One year among my Christmas presents, I found socks, and jewelry, and other random stuff. And a big, red cowbell. I was a little bit bewildered, to say the least. I made a big deal of it as moms will do, set it aside, and wondered. Why a cowbell? I knew my husband had come up with the idea for the child who picked this out. What in the world was he thinking to give me a cowbell?

The Day My Husband Gave Me A Cowbell

Then he explained. or maybe he had the child explain. I don’t remember. What I do remember is that somebody had some explaining to do!

You can use this to call the kids in from outside.

You won’t have to yell as much, and they will be able to hear you and know it is time to come in.

Suddenly the gift of a cowbell began to make sense. I’ll admit I was still a bit skeptical, but guess what? It worked — and with a few caveats — here’s how:

Do you yell too much? Do you find yourself hollering up the stairs for children in their bedroom with ear phones on, hollering down the stairs for children who are digging in LEGO buckets, or hollering out the back door for kids who are playing in the creek? With six kids and a health condition that prevents me from running up and down stairs, I found that I was hollering all the time. Not fun!

With one big clatter of my cowbell, my children know to come running. It takes a little training, but it’s a tool that works.

So, just for the record, my recommendation that you get a cowbell comes with a few caveats.

1) Don’t use your cowbell too often, or you downgrade the effect. Save it for times that matter. In our home, I reserve the cowbell for when the boys are outside, dinner is ready, or a child who has been texted or called politely does not respond.

2) Make sure you remove anything that is blocking the bell. You might think this would be obvious – and the first time it truly is. But for some reason play dough gets up in mine occasionally. I haven’t figured out why.

3) Keep the cowbell handy. I keep mine in the kitchen by the back door since that is where I use mine the most. If you hide it away in a cupboard it won’t get used. Mine’s on the windowsill and it looks cute sitting there.

4) Get a big enough cowbell that it will make plenty of noise. This cowbell needs to be heard. Children are loud. The creek is loud. Music is loud. LEGOs are loud. GO BIG!

5) Don’t use the cowbell for stupid things that might cause resentment. I might have done that a few times. It’s not worth it.

6) Go through a training period with your new cowbell and repeat as necessary. For a week or so after getting our cowbell, I rewarded the children who came immediately. Every once in a while, I still do. Rewards can be as simple as a piece of candy, or as amazing as a night off from kitchen duty.

7) Make sure the cowbell is off limits. None of my children (absolutely none of them) are allowed to ring the cowbell! That bell represents one of two authority figures in this house (myself or my husband) and we don’t want anyone thinking it’s just child’s play when they hear the bell ring. “Don’t touch my bell!” It has to remain set apart for its purpose. (Now about that play dough…)

Cowbell on Windowsill

I am pleased to tell you that since my husband got me a cowbell (albeit vicariously through a child since he knew he would be in big trouble if that was his Christmas gift to me) I have not needed to yell at my children as often to get their attention. I’m not saying I haven’t yelled up the stairs since, but this cowbell thing — it’s loud — and it works!

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Amy lives with her husband and six beautiful children in Northern Virginia. Besides blogging, Amy enjoys homeschooling, hiking, reading, singing, teaching, and serving Jesus above all. Welcome.

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  1. Tanya says

    March 3, 2016 at 10:21 PM

    LOL ahhhhhh you just need to watch Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge or DDLJ as fans would call it, to understand the real significance of “THE COWBELL” as a gift!!!!! that is sooooooooo romantic <3 <3 <3 <3 I would love it if i got a cowbell for christmas, and my daughter has told me that when someone proposes to her she wants it to be the "DDLJ way" starting with the clanging cowbell, then the strumming guitar/mandolin, then singing the song Tujhe Dekha To Yeh Jana Sanam, LOL It's a Bollywood movie from the 90"s so its a little corny but this movie is one of the most loved, most popular love stories of all time. It played in Indian Cinema for 25 years continuously,it was that popular!!!! It is a beautiful love story, its one of my and my daughters and my favourite all time movies 😉 watch it and you'll get a new appreciation for the cowbell LOL 🙂

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  2. Stefanie says

    March 4, 2016 at 10:56 AM

    I have been thinking I need a whistle but I like the cowbell idea better! 🙂

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  3. BEK says

    September 18, 2017 at 11:52 AM

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS. ASKING FOR A COWBELL FOR CHRISTMAS. OR COLUMBUS DAY. I CAN’T WAIT TILL CHRISTMAS!!!

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  4. Meagan says

    September 21, 2017 at 12:13 PM

    Ah fond memories…my dad installed a boat bell on the porch of our childhood house. My brother and I sure knew how to run quickly from the bush to the house when my mom rang it. #5 is really important – we knew if the bell was rang, it was important for us to come quickly (supper, time to leave, etc), it was never used for anything non-urgent.

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