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The Sticky-Note Method for Getting Kids To Help Around the House

by Amy Blevins 9 Comments

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We’ve been doing this for years, and for some reason I finally thought to myself, “I should put this in a blog post.” I’m not even exactly sure why this works, though I have my theories. I call it the Sticky-Note method for getting kids to help around the house. Also known as a Post-it Note cleaning session. Grab a stack of Post-its and I’ll show you how it works.

The Sticky Note Method for Getting Kids to Help Around the House (image)

It all starts with a big stack of Post-it notes and a Sharpie. We like to color coordinate by room but you certainly don’t have to. For each room you will be tackling, create a Post-it note for all the mini-jobs. You know, all the jobs you would be calling out and assigning if you were in drill sergeant mode. Instead, create a Post-it note for each one.

So, in the living room we have one for “clutter on the end table” and one for “stuff under the couches.” That kind of thing. Each sticky note is labeled by room, and we work together to complete each room before moving on.

Once your sticky notes are all ready to go, create a prominent display of them on a wall in a central location.

The Sticky Note Method for Getting Kids to Help Around the House (image)

Now, you gather the family. Give each child a piece of paper with his/her name at the top. Its time to get started choosing and completing tasks. When a task is chosen, it gets pulled off the wall and placed on the sheet of paper for that child. When the task is complete, a new task can be chosen.

Certain tasks will need to be done in order (de-clutter before sweep, sweep before mop, etc.) so you can either number the tasks in order or just instruct the choosers as you go.

Remember, your goal is getting the kids to help around the house, not perfection. That being said, your job as overseer is to train/help when necessary, and approve completed tasks.

The Sticky Note Method for Getting Kids to Help Around the House (image)

When all of the tasks have been completed, each child should have a paper covered in sticky notes that serves as a trophy of sorts.

Some of my kids like to neatly organize their stickies, and some like to make a giant piled mess. Older children may have fewer sticky notes because they took on harder tasks or helped their siblings along. The key is that everyone has proof of what they have finished, and it gives them a sense of accomplishment and pride in a job well done.

At the end of a sticky-note cleaning session, my kids like to save their papers to proudly show Daddy.

The Sticky Note Method for Getting Kids to Help Around the House (image)

Looking for a fun way to get your kids to help out around the house?  Try the Sticky Note Method! You can color coordinate by room, number the tasks, etc.  However you set your Sticky Note Method up, it is sure to be fun for the whole family and a great way to tackle everything on your cleaning list.

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About Amy Blevins

Amy lives with her husband and six beautiful children in Northern Virginia. Besides blogging, Amy enjoys homeschooling, hiking, reading, singing, teaching, and serving Jesus above all. Welcome.

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  1. Lee Ka says

    October 4, 2017 at 3:33 AM

    Thanks for sharing the sticky note method. I have always been looking for ways to encourage my kids to help out at home so that everyone is participating willingly and happily. This sounds good, and I will do this with my kids tomorrow. I found kids like something visual and get involved as well, instead of just receive verbal instructions. This morning I just ask them to pick up 10 things from the floor, and I just drew a chart and put our names there. They were happily picking up and drawing a symbol or item once they have done. I didn’t need to nag today.

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  2. Jacquie Forrer says

    October 4, 2017 at 5:44 AM

    We do something similar! I use a small white board and write out all the jobs for each room. Kids pick a job in each room and I get anything left over.. they erase their job when done. Love the post it note idea!

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  3. Becky says

    October 4, 2017 at 8:53 AM

    Whatever a fun idea! I write our chores on a large chalkboard we have hanging on our wall. Something about being able to erase a job is quite enjoyable. I think so too. Almost like we tackled and conquered something. Thank you for the alternative idea!

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  4. Kristen says

    October 4, 2017 at 2:17 PM

    I like this idea. And I love sticky notes. I may adjust to fit our family (I have a 2 and 4 year old who are eager to help clean and a 15 year old who is less eager).
    Thank you for sharing.

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  5. vicki shepard says

    October 13, 2017 at 2:04 PM

    Wow! That is a neat idea!

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  6. Beth says

    July 9, 2018 at 10:41 AM

    Amy – how often do you do this? Weekly? Daily?

    You rewrite the notes for each cleaning spree?

    Thanks!

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  7. David Smith says

    May 17, 2024 at 2:20 AM

    The sticky note method for getting kids to help around the house is genius! It’s a fun and engaging way to involve them in daily chores. Thanks for sharing this creative and effective strategy for fostering responsibility in children!

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