Every year in late spring, we start separating out the beach towels and setting them aside. Nine months of every year they are mixed in with our regular towels. But it’s almost time for the local swimming pool to open, and come pool season we need every beach towel we can sequester for pool days. I’m printing out my getting ready for the pool checklists for the kids and we’ve made sure everyone has flip flops and our favorite goggles.
Every day is a pool day at our house – or nearly every day. Whenever the weather cooperates, you will find us at the pool for at least a couple hours – playing with friends, exercising, and just generally enjoying the water and the sunshine. From May to September. And for a mom, that’s a whole lot of summer afternoons whiled away at the poolside chatting with my friends while we catch the kids at the end of the slide. Over and over.
That’s a huge benefit all by itself – getting to spend time talking to other moms – but there are other benefits to getting your kids to the pool all summer long. For one thing, they can’t make as much of a mess in the house if they are at the pool. And for another thing, they won’t get bored as much at home if they’ve spent a good chunk of the day at the pool.
And of course, exercise and learning a measure of water safety are also a benefit. Just one more thing I’ve noticed – kids at the pool are far less likely to bicker. I’m not saying it never happens, but it definitely happens less!
So what can you do to make your daily outings to the pool or beach more enjoyable for everyone? After ten years of living the poolside lifestyle from May to September, I have a few ideas.
- Apply sunscreen before you leave the house. Nothing is worse than getting to the swimming pool only to spend a good portion of your first session applying sunscreen out in the heat with kids running off as soon as they are lathered up. Instead, work together to get everyone sunscreened-up before you leave the house. This way everyone will work fast, cooperate and help each other – because nobody gets in the pool until everybody is ready to go. We like to get the stick kind for the face and use a spray everywhere else.
- Take pool toys in a mesh bag. We have a plethora of floaty balls, sinking torpedoes, and strange squirting frogs that somehow must go to the pool with us each and every afternoon. After fussing about clothes getting wet and a messy bag, I’ve finally invested in a mesh bag for the wet toys. Toss everything in the bag, give it a shake, and then leave it in the back of the car for next time.
- Take water bottles. Even though you are surrounded by water, the heat and sun can dehydrate your bodies pretty quickly. We like to either take a cooler full of waters or buy waters at the pool. It’s cheaper to pack them in a cooler each morning, or even fill plastic water bottles with ice and just a bit of water.
- Buy pool snacks on the cheap. Buying pool snacks each day from the concession stand gets crazy expensive! Grab snacks at your favorite warehouse store in bulk or check out the bulk section of your grocery store. You can buy prepackaged snack-sized bags and still save tons of money or you can make your own snack portions and save even more. Avoid common allergens like peanuts which can make the pool an unsafe place for your friends. We enjoy Pirate’s Booty.
- Buy good beach towels whenever you spy a sale. You can never have too many beach towels – at least not in my family. We try to get everyone two suits and two beach towels. Good beach towels can be used from year to year. Cheap ones barely make it through one summer. We buy good ones at the end of each summer and have some beach towels we’ve used for six years now.
- Hang up towels and suits on the deck to dry between days. Even then, poolside summers increase the laundry load.
- Make sure your kids are putting on the same clothes when they get home that they took off in the morning – or your laundry woes will double! Another possibility is to come home and get straight into pajamas. I guess it depends on how late you stay at the pool.
- Make expectations for behavior very clear. Foul play results in loss of time in the swimming pool. We don’t allow horseplay like dunking or rough-housing in the water at someone else’s expense. Everyone is expected to share pool toys and extend kindness to our neighbors.
- If you eat a snack – you clean up the mess. Setting these expectations early and often will help cut down on meltdowns at the pool when tired bodies can overwhelm reason.
- Stay alert. Dumping your kids into the pool and burying your nose in a book might be all well and good if they are teens. Younger children should know that you are watching out for them. Lifeguards might be on duty, but that doesn’t mean you are off the hook. I’ve even caught one lifeguard on camera asleep on duty! Keep your kids safe. I don’t lock eyes on my child the entire time if they are swimming reasonably well, have passed a swim test, and are with their friends. But I do try to stay at least aware of what is going on and keep a running check on all the kids’ whereabouts. Take a look at our list of pool safety tips to learn more about staying safe at the pool.
- Supervise your kids. And I’m not just talking about safety either. Last year I had to intervene on more than one occasion when my little boys were being bullied at the pool. Mom or Dad of the bully had their nose buried in a device and had no idea what was going on until I brought it to their attention. Things could have stayed much more polite had they just been moderately aware of what their son or daughter was attempting to get away with before it escalated to the point that I got involved.
- Collaborate with friends. Pool time is more fun for everyone – including moms – if you meet up with friends.
- Find out the daycare/camp schedule. If your pool is anything like ours, they will eventually sell tickets to a daycare or summer sports camp. As soon as those groups start showing up at our pool, we find out the schedule and purposely avoid them. The swimming pool is immediately too crowded when one of these groups shows up and with supervision limited to staff, the kids are noisy, rowdy, and sometimes even belligerent. More so than with the local kids whose parents I know by name.
- Go early or stay late. Of course – we don’t ever follow this advice and always end up at the pool at the prime times when everyone else is there too. But if you can go first thing when it opens, or stay for the last hour after everyone else has gone to supper – you will find it much less crowded. One family even discovered that Monday morning was the slowest time each week and they had the pool to themselves!
- Invest in good equipment. Goggles are everything to a six-year-old learning to swim underwater. We love the goggles on Amazon by the way. Way nicer than the standard ones you can get at the local store. When our twins were pre-swimmers, we used these fabulous devices called Puddle Jumpers. While these *do not* prevent drowning and must not be used unsupervised, they give your little ones a ton of freedom and help teach kicking and moving forward.
- Discuss water safety and general safety. Encourage kids to use the buddy system and stay together. Don’t let kids run off to the bathroom by themselves. Enforce *walking* on the pool deck.
- Invest in a swim class if at all possible. We like the one run by the Red Cross which includes pool safety and swimming skills.
- Use pool time as an incentive for fast and easy mornings. Kids are highly motivated to get chores done, do some “summer bridge” activities or light school work, and have good attitudes when they know that pool time is coming up. If you don’t mind paying for pool snacks at the concession – maybe make one pool snack a treat for getting a morning chore done.
- Have your kids lay down after lunch/before leaving for the pool for thirty minutes. We call it quiet time. No electronics, no noise. Just restfulness. This helps prepare their bodies for the extra work of swimming, allows food to digest, and will help them stay cheerful later in the day. We stole this idea from church camp when we were growing up and the kids love it too. They get suited up, and then lie down to rest and just be quiet.
- Toys and games are great teachers. Little ones are much more likely to go under water if they are chasing a plastic diving turtle! Kick boards are also a lot of fun and help kids learn valuable skills before they learn to swim. Think of games you can play with your pre-swimmers to get them into the water, practicing skills like getting their face wet, floating, kicking, and jumping. If your kids are in a swim class (and they should be! Did we talk about that yet?) repeat some of the fun things you see them do in class during your afternoons at the pool. Every extra 30 minutes you spend practicing these skills is moving your child that much closer to swimming independently.
These are the things that have made my life easier over the years while supervising kids age 6 months to 15 years old at the pool. I’d love to know your tips because I am always looking for ways to make our time at the pool more fun, and our time getting ready stress-free.
Michelle Elizondo says
June 23, 2016 at 10:59 PMJust have fun and be prepared!
Gloria Walshver says
June 24, 2016 at 6:50 AMWe used to go to the beach club where there was pools for adults and for young kids and I was always prepared with towels.
Helen Whaley says
June 24, 2016 at 7:28 AMThis is so helpful now that I have grandchildren coming along!
Nancy Burgess says
June 24, 2016 at 10:13 AMGreat tips thanks for sharing them.
michele soyer says
June 24, 2016 at 11:09 AMAll great tips but the best one is to watch your children carefully at all times
Christa Bengtsson says
June 24, 2016 at 11:46 AMThese are great tips. We haven’t done the laying down one for an half an hour. Our kids usually sit and talk to us or play in the sand.
shannon fowler says
June 24, 2016 at 5:39 PMi used to live at the pool as a kid. my mom made sure we were strong swimmers, and i was on the swim team very early on
lisa says
June 24, 2016 at 5:45 PMI wish we had a swimming pool. It gets so hot and humid where I live.
Amy Blevins says
June 24, 2016 at 9:53 PMFor a whole lot of reasons, we find it very useful to pay for a pool membership at the local pool. I realize not every community has one, but if yours does I highly recommend it!
Sophia,M.,McConnery says
June 24, 2016 at 9:50 PMVery useful tips.Do not have a pool!
Amy Blevins says
June 24, 2016 at 9:52 PMFor a whole lot of reasons, we find it very useful to pay for a pool membership at the local pool. I realize not every community has one, but if yours does I highly recommend it!
Sophia,M.,McConnery says
June 24, 2016 at 11:11 PMThey are too far away from me.I have to walk!The rules/tips though are very helpful!
tiffany dayton says
June 24, 2016 at 9:51 PMNo pool here. Wish I was close to the beach.
Amy Blevins says
June 24, 2016 at 9:52 PMFor a whole lot of reasons, we find it very useful to pay for a pool membership at the local pool. I realize not every community has one, but if yours does I highly recommend it!
April Monty says
June 25, 2016 at 11:16 AMIn this day and age these guidelines are a must!
lisa says
June 25, 2016 at 1:16 PMIt’s good to teach kids to swim at an early age. It’s fun and great exercise.
donna porter says
June 25, 2016 at 3:56 PMSuch great tips…Thanks
Tess Chalk says
June 25, 2016 at 10:20 PMAll great tips but my favorite is staying alert at all times…..so many people don’t pay attention to their little ones especially around a pool. Thanks for all the info.
Michelle Elizondo says
June 26, 2016 at 12:15 AMMy kids can swim. We don’t have a pool. but these are good tips.
Carolyn Massey says
June 26, 2016 at 9:19 AMWe don’t have a pool but have a community pool at our park. I have a 3 year old great grand daughter that is a water baby and loves to swim. Thanks for sharing these tips. I need to give her lessons so she can swim safely and not be afraid of the water.
Susan Campbell says
June 26, 2016 at 3:38 PMThis is so helpful. Thank you so much.
Alicia Hewitt says
June 26, 2016 at 5:03 PMThese are great tips.thank you
lisa says
June 26, 2016 at 5:22 PMPool safety is important. It takes only a second for an accident to happen.
donna porter says
June 26, 2016 at 5:40 PMThis is so important as I have a friend who lost their child to drowning in a pool…So sad
Kyli Wolfson says
June 26, 2016 at 9:41 PMI love your tip about using pool time as incentive. I do that now to an extent, but I think I’m going to reinforce it.
Judy says
June 27, 2016 at 5:12 PMGood advice!
Misty says
June 27, 2016 at 8:13 PMWe have a pool and swim early in the morning or late in the afternoon. When we do this, we don’t have to use unhealthy sunscreen.
marthalynn says
June 28, 2016 at 3:49 PMLove these tips! Especially using it as motivation to get the kids through morning chores and schoolwork with happy attitudes. I hadn’t thought about using concessions as an additional motivator. Now, I just need to make the investment to get them lessons!
Megan L says
June 28, 2016 at 5:41 PMWater safety is so important! Thanks for writing this!
Lana simanovicki says
June 28, 2016 at 11:01 PMGreat tips
Cheryl Everitt says
June 29, 2016 at 6:00 PMGreat tips! Thanks you.
Grace H says
June 30, 2016 at 11:52 AMGreat tips! The pool can be a stressful place to take your kids for sure!
lisa says
June 30, 2016 at 12:31 PMWhen I was a kid, I went swimming daily. I remember on opening day how cold the water was.
Heather Anne says
June 30, 2016 at 1:28 PMMy kids are teen now, so they are pretty independent, but these are great for younger families!
Doreen says
June 30, 2016 at 9:16 PMGreat water safety tips!
Gina H. says
July 1, 2016 at 12:50 AMGreat tips, I need to work on applying sunscreen before we leave the house.
Renee HendersonGray says
July 1, 2016 at 8:01 AMGreat pool tips to share with my friends.
Anastasia Noelle says
July 1, 2016 at 10:16 PMwell i dont have to worry about these, but they are very useful tips i will pass along 🙂
Julie Ikeda says
July 2, 2016 at 7:34 AMThank you for sharing! This will come in handy this summer
April Monty says
July 2, 2016 at 11:38 AMWant to wear the kids out? Here’s the
Cheryl Everitt says
July 2, 2016 at 10:10 PMThanks so much for the sound advice.
Terri Wilson says
July 3, 2016 at 12:17 AMI am so glad we had all the safety measures in place when our youngest was still in diapers. Pool net is still up, 12 years later!
lisa says
July 4, 2016 at 11:43 AMI took swimming lessons every summer when I was young. I Water parks are fun too. You post some good tips to keep in mind.
Renee Schuhmacher says
July 4, 2016 at 5:57 PMLots of great tips here for safety and mom sanity. Thanks
Rebecca Scolari says
July 4, 2016 at 6:01 PMExcellent ideas
Karen Propes says
July 5, 2016 at 6:15 AMThanks for sharing, these are great tips. So many times I just grab up what we need not thinking about all the little things. A list is a great way to keep everything you need instead of having to go back and get something once you get there.
laurie damrose says
July 5, 2016 at 9:27 AMPlease also know first aid and CPR.
lisa says
July 5, 2016 at 5:55 PMI feel old when I read blogs that talk about raising kids. I did that quite a while ago.
Jody Cleveland says
July 5, 2016 at 11:13 PMThanks for the pool tips!
Melinda Berlin says
July 6, 2016 at 9:43 AMGreat tips although we don’t have a pool. The last one I owned, I gave to my sister & they got 2 seasons out of it. It was a blow up pool which I do not recommend as a long term investment.
Rebecca Scolari says
July 6, 2016 at 6:59 PMThe ones about behavior are some of my biggest things, if someone doesn’t make sure their kid behaves i sometimes get upset. I don’t like when kids are out of control.
CHRISTY SWEENEY says
July 7, 2016 at 10:21 AMTWO BIG ONES, SUNSCREEN AND SNACKS! MY KIDDOS ALWAYS WORKED UP AN APPETITE SWIMMING! VERY GOOD POINTS!
lisa says
July 7, 2016 at 6:03 PMThis sounds gross, but every once in a while have the children get out of the pool for a bathroom break. Enough said!
Diana C says
July 8, 2016 at 10:27 AMthese are great tips. i don’t have kiddos but some of these tips are great when going out with family.
Denise F. says
July 8, 2016 at 1:12 PMNice site!
lisa says
July 8, 2016 at 6:11 PMSwimming is good exercise not only for children but people that issues with their joint. It’s low impact.
Annie says
July 9, 2016 at 7:42 PMThese are great ideas!
Laura Whitlock says
July 10, 2016 at 7:35 AMGreat ideas thank you!
April Monty says
July 10, 2016 at 12:56 PMBack in the day when I went to the pool with mom the pool was free,now a lot of places charge . Lifeguards are very health conscious and watch carefully we used to go early and stay till just before dinnertime,home,food shower and bed lol
BusyWorkingMama says
July 10, 2016 at 3:17 PMThese are great tips. I like to stay late and beat the crowds.
lisa says
July 10, 2016 at 5:48 PMI like tip number 18. Kids sure do get things done if there’s a reward. I loved the pool but eventually developed an allergy to chlorine.
Andrea Jones says
July 11, 2016 at 1:57 PMGreat tips, especially applying sunscreen BEFORE heading to the pool. My kids are always so excited to jump in that they don’t take time to apply sunscreen well.
Brenda says
July 11, 2016 at 4:47 PMThose are all great tips, thanks for sharing. I never thought about checking first to see if other groups are using the pool – good idea.
Sharon says
July 11, 2016 at 4:49 PMThank you for the tips!
lisa says
July 11, 2016 at 4:54 PMBesides air conditioning, swimming is the best way to cool in the summer heat.
Adriane says
July 11, 2016 at 9:59 PMReally important tips!
katie says
July 12, 2016 at 12:31 PMThis is good advice…especially for a Florida girl like me!
lisa says
July 12, 2016 at 6:02 PMIt’s nice to see that you put common sense tips out there for people. The sad part is that many people send the kids off to the pool to get them out of their hair. In a public place, it’s nice too see a parent teach the kids to be safe, have fun and be considerate of others.
gloria patterson says
July 13, 2016 at 3:09 PMA great list of reminder regarding the pool. I think all pareents should have this list
gina travers says
July 13, 2016 at 3:41 PMall great tips thank u
lisa says
July 13, 2016 at 5:50 PMSwimming is fun year round. I used to enjoy going to the Y in the winter.
April Monty says
July 13, 2016 at 9:42 PMI was the oldest so I was there most of the time to help as much as I could we never had issues.
Kim Benton says
July 14, 2016 at 4:21 PMMy Daughter is an Esthetition & she stays on the whole family about sunscreen & going to the pool/water park early before the hottest heat of the day.
gloria patterson says
July 14, 2016 at 5:41 PMgreat tips most know them but never hurts to be reminded
Rebecca Scolari says
July 14, 2016 at 5:54 PMSunscreen before leaving the house is super important .
lisa says
July 15, 2016 at 10:51 AMYesterday I was wishing I had a pool. It was 98 and humid. I was out mowing the lawn.
Shahreen says
July 15, 2016 at 4:30 PMThese are some great tips for kids to get the most of their summer swimming time.
Melissa Stephens says
July 15, 2016 at 6:02 PMMy only tip iz never take your eyes off the kids but honestly I needed these tips because I’ve never taken the kids to the pool alone but we moved an hour away to upstate N.Y. and our community has a gorgeous pool but I’m petrified not gonna lie! Thank you so much for this article! These tips can really help me and my family!
Anne Marie Carter says
July 15, 2016 at 8:32 PMGreat hints on things to do before you go to the pool. Planning is important in order for everyone to be safe and to have fun.
Cathy Jarolin says
July 18, 2017 at 5:39 PMWoW! You sure have organized yourself and your children with all of these awesome tips.for going to the pool..Thats wonderful. Some parents do just dump their kids and go right to their cell phones.Not paying a bit of attention to what their children are doing!! Thank You for sharing all these Great tips. I really can’t think of anything else to add. You did a Good Job.
Barbara Brown says
April 22, 2019 at 7:57 AMThank you Amy for sharing such an important topic. It is really very helpful!